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1. I am open about my feelings with others.
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2. I enjoy close relationships with others.
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3. I enjoy it when other people share their feelings with me.
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4. I am afraid others will reject my feelings when I share them.
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5. When I am in a close relationship, I worry about the other
person dominating me.
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6. When I feel I'm in a close relationship, I worry that the
other person does not feel the same about me.
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7. Sometimes I worry that I put too much trust in others.
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8. I feel closer to others when we share our feelings.
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9. When I believe my feelings would hurt another person, I don't
want to share them.
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10. I am very critical of people in intimate relationships.
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11. When I find someone I am attracted to, I want to feel close
to that person.
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12. I have a tendency to share my deepest feelings with others.
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13. When I am strongly attracted to another person, I do not like
sharing my sexual feelings.
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14. When someone is attracted to me, I want to be close to them.
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15. I avoid being close to others because close relationships
involve conflict.
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16. When I am attracted to others, I want close relationships
with them.
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17. People in close relationships tend to stop listening to one
another.
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18. I derive a great amount of satisfaction from relationships
that are intimate.
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19. I seek out intimate relationships.
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20. Forming close relationships is important.
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21. I have no need to share my feelings and thoughts with others.
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22. Intimacy often leads me to see things in a person I find
difficult to accept.
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23. I am usually accepting of most things about people I know
intimately.
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24. I keep a barrier between my personal space and others.
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25. It is difficult for me to trust people who raise concerns
about closeness and intimacy.
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26. Close relationships threaten my individuality.
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27. Losing control in an intimate relationship concerns me.
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28. I feel closer to a person when I am open and honest with
them.
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29. If I was someone else, I would want to know me.
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30. I look for people who have the same interests as I do to be
close to.
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31. When I reveal my secrets about sex to someone, I feel closer
to that person.
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32. I can be as close to members of the opposite sex as I am
those of the same sex.
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33. Often I want to become more intimate with a person who finds
me physically attractive.
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34. It is difficult for me to be intimate with more than one
person.
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35. I feel good when I am honest and intimate with someone.
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36. Most of the time I can see someone's viewpoint.
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37. I need to know my self-control is working properly before I
attempt intimacy with someone.
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38. I fight intimacy.
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39. Stories about people's relationships have an impact on me.
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40. Disrobing in a group increases my sense of being close to
them.
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41. I attempt to be close to and trust others.
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42. I believe people seeking intimacy have ulterior motives.
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43. One of the dangers of becoming close to someone is that you
become more vulnerable to manipulation.
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44. Usually I am very private.
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45. Sex and intimacy are the same and can only exist in tandem.
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46. I need a physical relationship to be intimate.
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47. The expectations of others you are intimate with often
decrease my fulfillment.
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48. I am willing to compromise to maintain an intimate
relationship.
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49. Being physically attracted to someone makes me want to
become intimate with them.
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50. I know that intimacy conjures both good and bad feelings and I
am willing to take the good with the bad.
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Disagree
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